Wednesday, October 31, 2012

Halloween Parade

Cori and Ben's daycare had a Halloween party and parade today. It was too cute! Cori went as Ariel and Ben was a penguin. I will attempt to get better pictures on Saturday when they go trick or treating, but for now... Happy Halloween!


Cori in her pre-K class

Ariel

Cori and one of her teachers (who is pregnant - isn't that the most awesome Halloween tee!?)

Penguin Ben!

Penguin Ben during the parade (Thanks Grammie!)

Cori's enterance

Ariel!

bye Ariel!
A special thanks to Grammie for helping out at the party today - there is no way that I could have done it without you!!

Monday, October 22, 2012

Video

Please ignore my messy house, but Ben's laughter is hysterical. You can tell he adores his big sister!

Hi

Time has slipped away again and October is almost over. Wow. I think we are all finally feeling better after the cold / flu hit our house for 2 weeks.  Subsequently it's also been 2 weeks since I've been to the gym (ugh). We've been keeping very busy in spite of nothing overly exciting to report.

We had parent teacher conferences at daycare. Cori is doing well and we are to work on multi-step directions for her kindergarten readiness.  We're still working on letters and numbers too and she is progressing there. I was able to chaperon a field trip to Soergel's Orchard which was fun. This is Cori's preschool class; she is on the bottom row all the way to the right in the lime green coat.  It was fun to watch her interact with her "friends" and it was also interesting (and gross) to see how apple cider is made.

Ben is doing well... still not walking. He will take 5 to 7 steps between Dave and I, back and forth, but just nothing constant. He was assessed at school and while he scored lower on his gross motor skills, it was due to not walking yet at 15 months. I know he'll get there when he is ready. I just hope it is before he is 2. =)  School is more concerned with his lack of / limited expressive language. He definitely gets what you are saying; he will follow commands and point to objects, etc. He just doesn't say much.  "Kitty" was his main word and now we're up to "ball" and "car" (his new favorite word). They are going to assess him again for his expressive language and may refer him to some speech therapy so he spends some one on one time practicing talking.

I **think** I'm over the mommy guilt for this - we are reading to him a lot more now than we were before, and we're making a conscious effort to say words to him for things "cup"' and "dog" and "spoon" and such.  I think because he is soooo laid back, and his sister does so much of the talking for him,as well as just plain old forgetting what a toddler needs to hear and do for speech development just all combined into a big lack of doing on our part.  Remind me of the times he didn't talk when I someday have two kids who yap non stop!

Dave and I had date night where we went to Siba restaurant and celebrated our 7th anniversary. We then saw Argo which is a fantastic film. I'm flying to Atlanta this weekend to meet my Godchild Katie and see her baptism. I can't wait!

And thank you for the prayers for my cousin Anna. Her surgery went well and they were able to remove the tumor. She has more surgeries in her near future, but she is on her way home back to SD this week. She will be moving to Iowa soon to be near a hospital that specializes in her condition. 

Otherwise we are enjoying fall - playing in the leaves and having bonfires and roasting marshmallows and counting down the days until Halloween.

I have a really cute video of Cori helping Ben walk. It's 46 seconds and it has taken me over 46 minutes to try to upload it to no avail. Maybe next time....

Friday, October 05, 2012

Prayers Please

Things are fine with us, especially when you see the pain that others go through.  The past few days we found out that our cousin's 15 yr old daughter Anna passed out and was rushed to the hospital by ambulance. Anna's mom wasn't able to revive her. Tests showed that Anna had 2 large tumors in her brain. Surgery needed to be immediate.

This is Anna. She's trying on a dress for her first prom a few months ago. Isn't she beautiful?

Because they live in a remote part of Montana, Anna had to be flown to Seattle for the care she needs.  Additional tests found a third tumor in the center of her brain, in a very difficult spot.  Today additional tests found a fourth tumor on her spine.  Anna has already lost her eye sight in one eye and hearing on the same side because of the tumors. That won't come back even when the tumors are gone.

Testing found that Anna has a condition called Neurofibromatosis Type II (NF2).  This basically means that even if  the surgery to remove the tumors is 100% successful, more tumors will grow back in Anna's body. "While the tumors associated with NF2 are benign, it’s their location—on or near the brain, the spinal cord, or the nerves, that makes them surgically challenging. A neurosurgeon may conclude that removing a tumor poses more risks to the patient than benefits."  The condition of her future quality of life is unclear, and to say that Anna and her family are scared would be a big understatement. 

Anna's first surgery is scheduled for this Wednesday. I would ask that you please send her healing prayers / light / good wishes if you have a moment.  And if I can ask also that you say a prayer for peace to her family and that the angels be extra close to the doctors and nurses and staff who will care for Anna in the next 10+ weeks.