Sunday, December 28, 2008

Happy Holidays

We definitely had a happy holiday and hope you did too! It's been a whirl-wind wonderful week of family, togetherness, laughs, good food and great memories. To say it was a "memorable" first Christmas with Corinne would be an understatement; I don't think I've ever had such a special Christmas holiday. But it's no surprise as she makes everything so much more meaningful!


We were pleasantly surprised with how great Cori did with the traveling, excitement and people other than Mom & Dad (since she is in such a "stranger danger" phase). I think it helped that we spent Christmas day at home which was a true luxury. She is over what-ever ailment was phasing her, and I'm fairly sure it was teething. She's still been clingy and fussy at times but it's nothing some Motrin and extra cuddles can't seem to cure.

Santa and family was extra good to all of us; it looks like Toys R Us has opened a new store on our first floor. Here are some pictures for you to smile over - resistance to the cuteness is futile!


Cori's first sled



Rocking horse from Grandma



First bow in her hair
Our little ladybug

Wednesday, December 24, 2008

7 months & scooching!

I had to make a quick post - Cori just scooted across the mat on the living room floor! It's slow but steady and she seems to be getting the hang if it. (Going after musical toys... I think I am in trouble!) But I was also lucky enough to be able to grab the camcorder and get it on tape! 3 minutes of first scooches... I am thrilled! What a milestone for her 7 month mark today!!

And on a happy note, we're on day #2 without any intestinal upsets. Other than the clinginess which is normal for this age, I think we're back on track. Merry Christmas Eve to everyone!!

Monday, December 22, 2008

"Baby Weirdness"

I think I may create a new game along the lines of "Name That Tune" and "20 Questions", and it would be called "Diagnose My Baby". Cori hasn't been herself since mid last week. Every morning she has a watery bowel movement / diarrhea first thing in the morning. The rest of the day, totally normal movements. She's been fussier and clingier than usual, but no fever or sniffles or congestion, etc. We've had a harder time than ususal putting her to sleep. And then this past Saturday her slow drinking of bottles turned to flat out refusing to drink them.

When the doctor saw her he said at most, it is a small case of a tummy bug. But he didn't even feel comfortable saying that since she was just having one loose movement a day. The primary concern was the lack of drinking and potential for dehydration. Immediately my thoughts turned to spending Christmas in Children's Hospital with Cori hooked up to an IV. This prompted me to at one point, hold my daughter down, force her mouth open and squirt formula down her throat with a syringe all the while, she is screaming away. There goes my "Mother of the Year" award...

I just don't know. I've been trying to listen hard to my parenting "Mommy-gut". Recently I learned the hard way that I need to pay more attention to that and give myself some credit. And my mommy gut is saying that this is somehow related to teething. She's been drooling a ton, the fussiness and clinginess... the lack of wanting to suck from the bottle? Motrin seems to help a little bit, and she is more apt to drink Pedialite from a cup"like a big girl" than to take a bottle - maybe because she doesn't have to suck? But at times she will take a whole bottle (ususally at night when she isn't playing) and I don't see anything in her mouth so who knows. I guess I have to chalk it up to what some of my blog friends term "baby weirdness". If anyone else would have any ideas or similiar stories, I'd love to hear them! In the meantime, I think I am going to finally go take a shower for today. This feels just like when Cori was 4 weeks old - the uncertaintly, the frustration - agh, memories!

Tuesday, December 16, 2008

Christmas lights

Recently we took Cori up to Kraynak's Christmas Greenhouse. It's a nice hour drive from our place, past Mercer & Sharron PA. Dave used to go all the time as a kid, and we've gone each year to check out their Christmas trees and displays. We've always wanted to take our little one there, so Cori became part of the pilgrimage this year. Parents of youngsters, I think your wee ones would love it! Best part, it's indoors and it is free!


They even have an upside down Christmas tree!

As part of Michelle's assignment, I'm posting a picture of one of my most meaningful ornaments. It was part of a collection my Grandmother had. Her son lived near the Wendell August forge and each year would buy her an ornament. These are hand crafted ornaments from metals, and really unique. When my Grandmother died in 2002, the collection was split between a few family members. I really cherish these ornaments I have of hers, and it is a sweet reminder of my childhood. The ornament here is from 1989; the little church reminds me of going to midnight mass with my Grandma and how dark & quiet it was outside after mass. All you could hear was the crunch of the snow and the whole world seemed so peaceful.


My second favorite ornament is this one from the very first year Dave and I were together in 2003. It makes me laugh because over the next few years, each year someone would give us a "our first Christmas together" ornament. It's somewhat of a running joke that we have 3 "our first Christmas together" ornaments on our tree. I think one was from when we truly spent our first holiday together, the next from when we were engaged and together, and the third from being married for our first Christmas together. We could've tried for a fourth one but ran out of events! But this one is the true one - self portrait on Christmas morning in front of a tree we decorated ourselves in Dave's old apartment.

Finally, here's our tree from this year. We're all set - the cookies have been baked, the gifts wrapped, and the music playing...we're ready! Are you?

Monday, December 15, 2008

Almond Joy

I've been meaning to post a follow up to my Dr. Oz entry, but it's been really hard to take the plethora of information in his book and place it into one post. There are so many interesting things he says that I could blog about. But I'll try to stick to the topic here, which is satisfaction in regards to food, and what you can do to help turn the tide your way.

Dr. Oz talks about how appetite and satiety are controlled by your brain (your hypothalamus if you want to be specific). You have specific chemicals that drive you to eat & decrease metabolism, and once that reduce your appetite & increase your metabolism. We know these chemicals do what they do because of studies on rats. (Bear with me, this is too cool to not mention.)

Scientists looked at the extremes and saw what happened if they turned the feeding system completely on or off. If they destroyed the rat's eating center, the rat literally forgot to eat. The resulting severe anorexia starved the rats' bodies of nutrients and the rats died. On the opposite end, if the eating center was over-stimulated, the rats always wanted food, and they literally ate themselves to death. Their stomachs didn't explode, but rather the consumption of excess food led to diabetes, hypertension and arthritis which is what killed them.

So it's all about the hunger on and off switch. At the bottom of your stomach and top of your intestines, the food you eat hits a very important traffic signal. It's the red light that tells your brain your are either full (red light - STOP!) or to keep the food a' comin (green light - GO!). A chemical switches this light to "red" when your bowel senses that you've consumed fat. Now while it may seem like you don't have any control over these biological processes and chemicals that coast through your body, you CAN control them through food choices.

Having a little bit of the right kids of fats before you eat can trick your hormonal system into sending the signal to your brain that you are full. It takes about 70 or so calories and 20 minutes for this signal to kick in. This 70 calories can come in the form of 6 walnuts, 12 almonds or 20 peanuts. Once you consume your handful of nuts, you can now eat for pleasure and not for hunger, probably ensuring that you will eat less. But you still want to eat slowly; having food in your gut (and beyond) is required for the longer term satiety signals to be produced and talk to the brain.

Which nuts do you want to eat? Well, walnuts contain the most Omega-3 fatty acids of all the nuts, which help reduce cholesterol, improve mood and fight cancer. Studies are also showing that they may protect against sun damage (but don't skip the SPF just yet). Almonds are also good at reducing cholesterol. What ever nuts you decide to eat, just remember you don't need to eat more than a small handful. With the holidays upon us and all the food you'll be facing, maybe you will find this info useful for now as well as beyond! If you don't believe me, read the book.

Thursday, December 11, 2008

Where we've been

Yes, we're still out here. =) It' s been a busy week or two.

Cori has been doing great. I swear she just gets more fun each week. I can't believe she is going to be 7 months on Christmas eve. She is sleeping well for the most part, loving her jarred food, and talking up a storm. Her new favorite past-times include hanging out in her jump-a-roo and exosaucer and doing this phlegmy sounding screech which is really some sort of weird excited laugh. It's hysterical to do with her - back and forth. She goes for ten minutes at a time. My voice hurts doing it, so I can't imagine hers! And she's graduated to the "big girl" bath tub upstairs. She loves to watch things float in the bubbles!
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Today at daycare she had her first accident. Apparently one of the little guys was throwing toys across the room, and one hit her in the mouth. Her onsie and sweater was covered in blood & drool - it was quite a sight to see. Fortunately it didn't seem to do any damage and was an accident. I guess being the only girl with 4-5 boys, she's going to have to learn to be tough. I do admit though that I wanted to cry inside.
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As for Dave and I, we got to enjoy a quick visit with his brother last weekend. We all were part of Molly & Mike's wedding on the 6th. It was a fabulous day full of laughter and smiles and lots of love. Molly looked amazingly beautiful and Mike was a beaming groom. I enjoyed meeting Mike's side of the family (most of whom are from out of town) especially since Dave knows his family so well in the past 25 years.
The snow made for some beautiful pictures but the beauty quickly turned into worry when the roads got slick and guests were delayed. The happy couple had a fairly care-free attitude and delayed the ceremony a half hour to let people trickle in. Unfortunately Shadyside must be absent from the PennDOT list of roads to treat... we got stuck in traffic for an hour trying to go all of 1.5 miles from the church to the reception site.
In the end it all worked out though, and a little snow couldn't stop this party from happening. We even got to see our friend / DJ from our wedding, who was sweet enough to play "our song" (100 years by Five for Fighting) and dedicate it to us. This was enough to cause Dave's family on the dance floor to "aghhhhhhhh" causing me to blush a bit. But hey, it's no secret how Dave's family can cause me to blush at weddings (esp my own!)